God does not want us to wait until we are hit with hard times to pray. He doesn't want us to wait until the bills are not paid, the relationship with our husband is combative, the kids are sick, and our teenager ran away - to come to Him. He desires for us to daily, persistently and diligently. He wants us to PRAY about everything.
So choose to bring Him all your decisions, your desires, your praise, your petitions and your requests in a consistent manner trusting Him completely to give you guidance and answers. Remember God is faithful, "...And God will answer!"- That's a promise in Hebrews 11:6.