Have you ever heard someone speak of another while describing them and say, "he's so humble!" This warm and gentle graciousness comes to my mind when I hear the word "humble". It is a Christ-like characteristic of lowly submission and meekness. A quality to be coveted by every believer.
But the truth is humility is a difficult subject for most of us. Our egos are oversized and a conversation about humility cuts against the grain of our carnal self. It is a part of the old nature to want our own way. And it is evident of the old carnal man inside us when we respond to criticism or unfair treatment with our fists up and our mouths in motion. We retaliate instead of turn the other cheek.
Philippians 2:3-4 reads like this, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests, but each of you to the interests of the others." It is natural for us to gratify ourselves at another person's expense - but it is not spiritual. Sometimes, God must bring us to a place of brokenness before we can be molded and shaped like clay in the Hand of the Potter.